I'm a stay @ home mother too. We all aren't ones who lay around all day long. We are very productive woman we make sure the house is clean, we have to feed the kids breakfast, lunch, and make sure we we have supper done when our husbands are @ home from a hard day of work.Still, in "2007" there are husbands that love for their to stay @ home. Me, my sister, and alot of woman @ my church are stay @ home moms and home school moms too. We love being @ home with our children. We have play dates. There's alot we do with our children that most people in this fast past world don't get time to do and that is we can give them all our time and attention when ever they need it. It's all in your beliefs. we are "PARTNERS" to our husbands we are one with them. We have to remember who is the head of the household with us it's our husbands. We help make decisions, but over all the one that gives us grace is the Lord Almighty. He is the one who has put our husbands as the head-of-the-household. We put God first, our husbands second, the wives are next, then children, and everything else comes after that. So, don't put down all of stay @ home moms we aren't that bad. We have a job too we just don't get a pay check. Thank you and God Bless.