Quote From: lcrothersMy boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. We met on a dating site. Last weekend, I found out that he still logs into the dating site and has the entire time we have been dating. Though he doesn't show is profile and he is not a paid member (so he can't actually email anyone and no one can email him). He says he just does it for entertainment purposes? I am now doubting everything in the past two years. Am I overreacting?
I don't think you are overreacting at all. I think his answer is bs. What you saw as far as him logging in on the personals, is probably on the surface. If you saw that, imagine all the stuff you didn't see.......It's not paranoid. I think a lot of people on those personals have either a sex or love addiction, or use those sites to feed their narcissism. My personal opinion is that the chance that he is telling the truth, although possible, is very very slim.
Good luck!
