Quote From: realgood2u
YES, he wanted you to find out because he wants you to be the bad guy that ends things. And no, nothing makes this easy.
You can do lots of talking on this site. It really helps. Some folks will communicate on the side also if you are ok with that.
Great legal counsel will help you with your worries. Don't be NICE because you still want him to like you. He blew that. You have to protect yourself and daughter. AAA will take care of that tire. Worth every penny in my book. He can pay for that too.
I'm not going to be the bad guy and end things, he has the girlfriend, he can pay for the divorce to be with her. I just want enough money to survive and be able to do things with my daughter.
I found out yesterday that my oldest daughter has already met his new girl, that kinda chaps my butt, I must admit. But what really truely bothers me is that he goes out in the town where all of us live, he is married to me and going all over town with her, I find the very offensive and just plain RUDE! I wrote a letter to my family and had them all set down and read it yesterday. It explained my feelings and invited them (husand and 2 oldest daughters) to ask any questions they wanted while we all sat there and could hear the answers together. My 19 yr old asked him how would it be if I was the one with a boyfriend and he said, "no different than it is now." He lies so bad, if it were me with the boyfriend, I know that he would sit in the carport with a gun, wait for us to come home one night and kill us both. My 19 yr old also told him that she never wants to meet her because she doesn't consider her anything except a home wrecker.
Where do I get the money to go and see a lawyer? Hell just paying my credit card bills and buying some groceries to feed us takes all I have. I am trying to figure this all out!
Thanks for replying.
