Quote From: nyquiljunkieDid I say I was one? NO.
and the erotic aspect is only one of several I mentioned.
dont try to pick a fight, you understood the post.
and 9 and 15 is old enough to experience erotic sensation.
dont get hung up on that one, as I know you want to get.
if they can hold it in public tto avoid the restrooms someone explain how that control vanishes when they get home?
You know I asked my kids if they knew what the word "erotic" means. BOTH of them had no idea what it means. Now like I stated earlier, your post was the first and only one to have ANY sexual overtone to it.
IF you watched the segment (and I doubt that you did) we mentioned that not only would they mess at home but places like church and school and just about everywhere else. IT WASN'T JUST A PROBLEM AT HOME. It got to the point where we didn't go out all that much because of the problem so DUH they are going to have messes at home. Yeah the oldest mentioned that he doesn't like public restrooms. Who does!?!? Most of them are so scary you hesitate to go in. The bathrooms at school are even worse. Seems all the rage now is to burst in on someone sitting on the toilet. Would you feel comfortable know that someone may kick the door in on you while you were sitting there. My guess is that you would avoid going too.
I mentioned too in an earlier post that we had about 7 minutes of time to try and explain our story. IF you watched the segment (and again, I doubt that you did) you would have seen that the conversation was dominated by the 2 Dr.s. I tried several times to say something but was cut off by a comment from one of them. We went on the show mainly to try and find a way that would help the kids and help us understand how to better deal with the frustration and anger we were feeling at not being able to find a solution to this.
Until you have spent ANY time trying to deal with this problem, you know NOTHING about the issue. I will not sit here and have people accuse us of abusing the kids in any way, shape or form. Dealing with the hateful and perverse comments such as yours and others is just another dimension of frustration that we have to cope with.
