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October 3, 2005, 9:29 pm PDT
True Love
Quote From: starflowerdear, YOU should be your fiancee´s best friend :) i have never really seen a guy and a girl being able to have a good friendship -sooner or later one or the other starts to have romantic feelings and then the whole idea of friendship becomes absurd: you have every right to be jealous if your fiancee is having close friendships with any other female than you :) you have to make him to choose, either you or her. that is what i would do. husband and wife must naturally be best friends with each other and not with other people of the opposite sex.
it doesnt sound good to me that he hasnt introduced you to that girl earlier -if he has nothing to hide, he hides nothing! YOU are his partner, he loses nothing by staying away from other women:)
and about his mother, your fiancee can either make his own decision or you two can wait a few years. if it is true love, it will survive :) I agree with what you are saying but I do have a very good guy friend, we have been friends for years and can share and hang out together and not once have we had a physical attraction to one another, we are simply friends and darn good ones at that. But I will say that my husband is my best friend and I believe that is so becasue of the love and trust that we have built with each other. I think in this case, the friendship does need to be shut off as the girl has feelings for the guy and this guy needs to step up to the plate and take care of the situation, otherwise, it could and probably will cause problems.
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