Replies to 'Abuse'

You've taken the first step....coming to this board and admitting to yourself that you are in a very toxic relationship and it is affecting you and your children.

Educating yourself about domestic abuse will help you determine your husband is about control and power and not about being a partner and father.  If it is possible, I would also seek counseling for you and your children.  Call your local domestic violence center....they will assist you and offer much needed support.

You will need a plan...a safety plan and a living plan.  It's important you gather as much information as you can  because you will need the documents at a later date such as copies of income tax returns, bank records, social security numbers, retirement funds, etc. etc.  Do not let your husband know you are doing this.  Get yourself a credit card in your name (only) if you do not already have one.  Try to put aside as much cash as you can should you need to leave in a hurry.

You can do this....it won't be easy but with a plan, you can get to a better place for you and your children.

Be Safe - Educate Yourself - Make the Call

I Care

Very Irish