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Poor little step daughter doesn't even get much contact with her Dad. She has sneaked calling him a couple of times. And I think she got caught and her Mom got on the phone and ragged my husband out. How she will never let Ashley around me again. And no Ashley don't know anything that I know of or my husband. My step daughter doesn't know anything about our lives right now. She don't know that we have moved or anything...We are not done with the court stuff. But as soon as we are were going to court for at least visitation. I really don't know it depends on how court goes. If I am found innocent than I am going to pray that the DA finds the truth and turns the tables on the people that did this to me. All this really is doing is causing psychological problems with Ashley me and her Dad. We are all so lost. His daughter obviously misses her Dad if she is sneaking on the phone to call him. But how would I know I don't know anything. I'm scared this woman did this to me in 2001 with her cousin and come to find out they dismissed the charges and the only thing else they have on her is welfare fruad but, that was dimissed also. Due to plea and abeyence...pay some restitution and she got out of it all.

 

What do I do about all of this? I just pray and pray and cry and scream and holler and pray and hope that I am going to be safe. All I want in life is to feel safe again. I don't want to look around my shoulders every time I turn around thinking I am going to get jumped. Or think I might run into Ashley and not know what to say or how to not show any emotion. I suppose it will all get better it has too. I can't deal with this any longer...

Hello and thanks for being there... Step daughter is in the dark. She isn't allowed to see us. Her Mom changed her telephone # so we can't call her. And now they have moved so we can't even send her birthday gifts and they were rejected and sent back as address unknown...etc. And than stepdaughter called her Dad in secret as Mom was at the store with her Grandma (wicked witch of the west) anyhow she told her Dad she can't give out her phone # and than she try to call again and she was caught or something. And Mom got on the phone was very mean saying that she will never be able to be apart of his already made family....etc. It just makes me sick to hear all this. This woman was my friend I thought. We went to temple grounds with her daughter my step daughter with my boys the step brothers for Christmas lights. We went out doing alot of things together. And I even took her to wendover for her birthday too. So I really don't know what happened to her unless she is so bad at her prescription habit that she got looney...Carlie