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  Well said!!!!  I 100% agree with you !  NO ONE SHOULD EVER, EVER HAVE TO DO THAT!!!  Especially if they aren't comfortable with it.  Some men just don't get it!   

 

  

Just becuase someone may bring a person to orgasm by oral stimulation, does not mean they must swallow.  The one giving the pleasure has ample opportunity to stop and NOT "digest".  

  

Larry did not say anything about expecting that his wife swallow.  He merely, and incorrectly, believes that it's not oral sex unless a climax is reached.  If that were true across the board, then many, many women would still be virgins! 

 Julia (rgsg0414), Larry is most definitely not being greedy by requesting some more oral attention -- he was communicating to his wife the immense pleasure he would receive if she would allow him to have it.  If you believe that semen is only for conception, then you should not ever have sex with any contraceptive device.  People give different reasons to avoid oral sex, but they are all usually secondary to the primary reason of being afraid of it.  It is not something to be feared or avoided.  Instead, it is an act  that can create an immense feeling of intimacy and pleasure (even for the female!) between both partners.  Additionally, expanding your repertoire of possible sexual acts really helps to keep the intimacy in a relationship alive because it adds a new element of excitement by not being able to predict exactly what is about to happen in a session.  Being scared of something is not a reason to avoid it -- do not live your life in fear, but rather conquer your fears and live a greater life because of it.