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October 4, 2005, 3:58 pm PDT
By the way
Quote From: jettavAbstence is a realistic idea and it SHOULD be encouraged and taught, if they teach one way, they need to teach the other way as well. Some kids out there have never been taught that it is ok to not have sex, Alot of kids, especially girls believe that they have to have sex to be love and accepted when in all reality, it ususally leads to some slef esteem issues, yes, it is realistic and possible and again, if they are going to teach about sex, then yes, absentence should be included and yes, it is the BEST form of protection against the unexpected. My children will be learning that absentence is the best and the best thing to do is to save them selves, fall in love, get married and then have sex with your one and only and of course they will be taught about protection, std's and all that and if they do decide. to go out and have sex, they will be held accountable for their actions, they will take responsibility for the mistakes that they make. The boundaries will be set and they will know the consequences of their actions before hand, Yep, absentence is realistic and there are many smart kids out there who know it and follow that concept. Not every teen is going to go out and have sex and they need to be encouraged and praised, not in a class room that will make them misfits, there, if one way is taught then EVERYTHING needs top be included. I am not stupid either. I am actually a smart person who knows that absentence is possible and can be achieved by those who really want to wait and are encouraged to. sure there are those who are going to do it and that is whay I say if they teach one way then they need to cover all the grounds which also includes absentence.
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