Replies to '10/05 Moms: Cut the Chaos'

being a stay at home mom is the best decission I ever made. I love every moment of it and i have done it since day one. Now, that my oldest is in preschool, I feel a little empty, I miss her while she is gone which is only 7 hours a week, but she certainly loves it. My girls and I have alot of fun together and it has been wonderful watching them grow and mature and for me, I was able to see every first that they achieved, mothrehood certainly is a blessing and I wouldn't trade it for the world and being home just added more pleasure to it. No, it isn't always easy, but I believe attitude is a big thing and can either make or break a person. Having a supportive and caring spouse helps a lot and when I feel that I need a break, I do it which is something every mothr needs, time to relax, hang out with friends and date nights with hubby. It certainly does wonders for my house hold. I think it is all about balance and knowing who you are and the desires of your heart. I believe you will be happy with your choice.

I am the SAHM mom of a 2 1/2 year old who left the workforce to raise her.   She's my joy.  

  

You are on the right track with starting a playgroup!   Check in your area paper to see if they have a local mom's club that you can also join.   These groups have "Mom's Night Out",  "Craft Night", "Poker Night", trips to the local attractions, and so on.  My group also has a website where we post to each other and get lots of tips and recommendations for fun places, pediatricians, dentists and the like!  Get to know the website of your local parks department.   

  

I also use my neighborhood babysitter's coop whenever I need a "break".   My daughter loves playing with her playmates and I get a break! 

  

Enjoy your babies!