Quote From: harobeThat was meant to be "we agree more than you realized". And being a DIL who is not shocked at anything due to the experiences with my ILs, I have
a lot of empathy for other DILs. I'm also a MIL now, so between the insight I've received in that role and from this forum, I've gotten a view from the other side of the fence... doesn't look a whole lot better. None of us are victims. If we're not part of the solution, we're part of the problem. :)
I so agree with you!
I often joke (tongue in cheek) that I have such a hateful MIL that God has made sure I have to turn the tables and be a good mother in law..he gave me 4 sons and a daughter to make up for the witchy stuff my mother in law pulled.
If we aren't part of the solution..we are definately part of the problem!