Replies to 'How Porn Has Hurt Our Relationship'

Some guys just can't help lying (like mine)... by the time they are that age it comes as easily and naturally as breathing and eating. It's not so much the porn or cybering* or resultant affair as the lying. It's sick and hurtful. I was and am still in love too but can you really keep putting yourself through all that agony? I know it's easier said that done but for your own sake you need to confront him and insist you tackle this behaviour together (with counselling preferably) or he should go marry his computer and leave you to enjoy whatever life you have left. My guy got so dependent on it it couldn't function without it. I had to show that sweet, patholgical puppy the door. No, he probably doesn't even miss me and though I miss him, I miss the me I should be even more.

*Why isn't cybering illegal? It may be sexy but it's also grose!