Quote From: geminastraI guess it's web-camming... if web camming is doing the whole strip/ masturbation thing on camera. I honestly don't think the guy I know could stop lying... it even seems that he doesn't know he's lying... he tells them so well he even believes himself and no, it's not in my imagination as he sometimes says. It's a habit... and why should he want to stop when it all works so well for him and his life is carefree and a constant meeting of his needs with no conscience or self-examination. An enviable state??? except that it doesn't seem human but animal. Still, it's very sad.
I hear ya'. And why should they stop if they "don't have to"? Well, they're killing off their sensitivities for one, becoming more animal than man (and I mean "man" not "human"). They're trowing their cash away for fake sex when they could have real sex with someone who loves them. They're avoiding the real world, life & real emotions & that really makes a life hollow.
I'm placing my boundaries in an up-right position & H is fighting it (lyings again about MB & his behaviors WRT therapy). But he's losing me because he chose to throw me away for his selfish wants.
He made a choice. Several choices, actually!
