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October 5, 2005, 7:06 am PDT

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Ok, I never breast feed my two girls but i also feel that there is a proper place to breast feed i mean have some kinda respect for those around u its not about the right to do it in public there is just a right and a wrong place to do it.  And as far as passing out condoms in school what the hell are u parents thinking i mean gee u are basically tells your kids thats its ok to do it because u are protected ahhh no how about u try being a parent and not hoping that the condom will do the parenting for u .. What is wrong with simple sitting down and talking to your kids about sex let them trust u enough that if they are considering it that they will at least come to you .. instead of going to a girl and say hey lets have sex my mom says its ok she even gave me protecting then they will start influsing the girls and then u have a chain reaction..
And where do YOU think is a proper place, where exactly is the right place?
 
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October 5, 2005, 7:28 am PDT

10/07 The Latest Debates

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Ok, I never breast feed my two girls but i also feel that there is a proper place to breast feed i mean have some kinda respect for those around u its not about the right to do it in public there is just a right and a wrong place to do it.  And as far as passing out condoms in school what the hell are u parents thinking i mean gee u are basically tells your kids thats its ok to do it because u are protected ahhh no how about u try being a parent and not hoping that the condom will do the parenting for u .. What is wrong with simple sitting down and talking to your kids about sex let them trust u enough that if they are considering it that they will at least come to you .. instead of going to a girl and say hey lets have sex my mom says its ok she even gave me protecting then they will start influsing the girls and then u have a chain reaction..
Why would it be disrespectful to anyone around me to breastfeed my baby?  Am I hurting them in some way?  Would you rather listen to my baby screaming the entire time?  Wouldn't that be more offensive?  I'm not saying that women should just walk around with their breast exposed and not show some form of modesty, but since you have two children of your own, I would think that you would understand that when your  baby is hungry, she needs to eat!  What did you do when you were out in public and your baby needed to eat?  I'm pretty sure you didn't leave the store and go home so you could have privacy.   I have gone in the bathroom to nurse, and even out to my van, and STILL got dirty looks, and I was completely covered!!!  I have an obligation to take care of her needs.  If someone else is offended by that, they're just going to have to get over it. 
 
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October 5, 2005, 11:48 am PDT

10/07 The Latest Debates

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Ok, I never breast feed my two girls but i also feel that there is a proper place to breast feed i mean have some kinda respect for those around u its not about the right to do it in public there is just a right and a wrong place to do it.  And as far as passing out condoms in school what the hell are u parents thinking i mean gee u are basically tells your kids thats its ok to do it because u are protected ahhh no how about u try being a parent and not hoping that the condom will do the parenting for u .. What is wrong with simple sitting down and talking to your kids about sex let them trust u enough that if they are considering it that they will at least come to you .. instead of going to a girl and say hey lets have sex my mom says its ok she even gave me protecting then they will start influsing the girls and then u have a chain reaction..

  

why would it be wrong to meet my babies needs in public? I live 20 minutes from town, so I would have to drive 20 min to come home and feed my son?  Why can't people who don't like it just look the other way?  I'd a whole lot rather see someone nursing a baby than letting 89% of their boobs hang out of their shirts! lol 

  

  

 
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October 6, 2005, 12:23 pm PDT

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Quote From: mks22878

Ok, I never breast feed my two girls but i also feel that there is a proper place to breast feed i mean have some kinda respect for those around u its not about the right to do it in public there is just a right and a wrong place to do it.  And as far as passing out condoms in school what the hell are u parents thinking i mean gee u are basically tells your kids thats its ok to do it because u are protected ahhh no how about u try being a parent and not hoping that the condom will do the parenting for u .. What is wrong with simple sitting down and talking to your kids about sex let them trust u enough that if they are considering it that they will at least come to you .. instead of going to a girl and say hey lets have sex my mom says its ok she even gave me protecting then they will start influsing the girls and then u have a chain reaction..

Where is the proper place to BF my child? In a dark room, a disgusting bathroom?  Please tell me as I would love to know.  And please have respect for those of us who made the decision to BF. 

  If my kid is hungry I am going to feed her.  If I am outside I will cover her up with a blanket or if it's nice out I wear a nursing top so when she is feeding it looks like she is sleeping. 

I am so glad to live where I do because it is Ileagal to discriminate against a nursing mother in public and tell her to go elsewhere so that she is being respectful to others and out of the way. 

 


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