Quote From: bcolter220I read your entry a few times to see what I may have been missing and came to the conclusion that I'm not missing anything but your story is...it just makes no sense. I have a son and I am very confident that
1st, I as his mother would never place him in a position where he would have to choose between his wife and myself...
2nd, no one can poison his mind against me because I am confident that I raised him to have his own mind so if he had a problem with me it would be his problem and no one elses...and
3rd no one can stop a grand-parent who wants (badly enough) to see their grandchildren from seeing them. Your son is his father, why is it only your DIL taking the blame for your inability to interact with your grandchild...it sounds like you want this woman to take the blame for actions in which your son also has a say.
If the MIL and children/grandchildren do not live in the same state, there is absoutely no way grandparents can get visitation rights unless the children are wayward, sick, illegal, etc. Mostly, those of us in the predicament have totally straightforward progeny and thus there is no way to force this legally.
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