Replies to '09/03 Who's the Evil-Doer?'

Quote From: scotmelw

yes you are right some can be. but i have the same problem with my  mil, she is such a mean lady never in my life have i met someone that is so hateful, i have always sent pic and videos and have called to let her know how we are doing. at first we got along good untill she started to try and get his ex around him and she wanted them to get back together she called and told my husband that the only reason he married me was b/c to take care of my mistake ( what is my oldest son) how sad is that, calling a inicoent child a mistake. and that is not at all true, i didn't need aman to take care of my son or I, for that matter, so just recantly i have stoped all contact with her i don't call i don't send pics, nothing afer 9 yrs of marriage i am so sick of all her bs, the letter she writes are just awful, at holidays she send only to her son not to any of his kids bioligicaly or not, (how sad is that) the iniconent kids are seeing this, i finally gave up on her b/c she twists everything, i had started keeping letters she sends so others see this and if i had sent anything i make a copy, (cards letters ect) so anyways i fell bad for my hubby so that is why i don't talk to her anymore, now she can't have anything to lie about anymore.  i fell bad for you if you are a great mil, and want to be there for ur son and his wife, but some mil just want there sons all to there self and pick there mates and you can't do that. my hubby  has a very stressfull job and i don;t think he needs all this bs that she brings all the time, he barely calls home since she complains all the time about everything and tells him how much she would like him to be with so and so. my parents are so good to him and treat him as if he was one of there own kids, so i just wish we would have a better relationship. he doesn't know what to do about this but i am just sick of it.