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I really appreciate your affirmation that I'm doing the right thing.  They really had be beginning to believe their lies were true.  I agree - THEY NEED TO GROW UP.  It was also reaffirmed to me today when I called the mortgage company to find out what other information they needed to modifiy the loan and they said that they had never received ANY INFORMATION AT ALL FROM MY SON-IN-LAW.  I don't know what his motives are, but I (being a mother) AM concerned for my daughter.  No matter how much she bad mouths me, she is still my child, and I am really concerned because I feel my son-in-law is lieing to her and conning her as much as he is me.  That's the worst part of it all.  I know that he's keeping her just as sick as he wants her to be so he can control her.  I do fear for her, but she believes every word he says and nothing I can say will change that.  I guess I just need to keep praying for her to gain clarity and hopefully at some point she will see the real truth.  Thanks again, I will stick to my guns and hold true to my beliefs.  As hard as it may be, and no matter what happens, I WILL always be there for my daughter should she need me.  My best to you and your family.  Maybe someday I will see my grandchildren again.  It really is a travisty what they are doing to the children - but I cannot do anything to change it - just keep praying my granddaughter doesn't forget me.  It's really hearbreaking.