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September 12, 2007, 5:39 pm PDT
Poor boys
Quote From: divorcedonceMy husband did the same thing to my family, with our sitter which I considered my little sister, she was 12 when we first had her over, then she was 18 and sleeping with my husband. Its been almost 5 years now but the pain in my sons life will always be there. I did kick him out and he now lives with the teenager (now 22 and he is 42), ignoring his responsibilities as a parent. It is very hard and I can understand her pain and unless you actually go through it, I believe no one can really get it or know what they would do. I feel like she should kick him out like I did but living through this everyday now, I don't know what would of been best for my boys. They are not happy!!!!! These bad men perpetuate so much pain to the generations and everyone around them. Men think they are superior but yet they act like little babies wanting new toys. I am sorry for your and your boys' pain. I hope they can find the strength to take his example as sick and wrong and know how much stronger and better they are that he is not in their lives. I hope they can find some positive role models, but it is getting more difficult to find truly good men in this world.
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