Quote From: smiley66I recently had a similar situation. My boyfriend broke up with me, but continued to call, email, and text message me. I couldn't understand, why if he broke up with me he would keep reaching out to me. We went to counseling - just one session - and decided to get back together. It has been a roller coaster of emotions. I love him completely and I know he loves me, but I was so scared of getting hurt that I did not invest 100% of myself to him. It's been 2 months since we got back together and I'm slowly coming around. I just try to concentrate on the here and now and not overthink too much. If everything else is good and he makes you feel loved and appreciated and if he realizes he made a mistake the first time, then let it go. All relationships run the risk of failing and you always are putting yourself out there to get hurt, but without risk, there's no reward!
This works for me...... access the overall relationship.....how do you feel about it "overall", like 90% of the time? Does it feel positive with a few rough patches once in a while. Dig deep and think about it. Don't disect it by saying that this piece is good and the other piece is bad, but I like this about him.......just an overall feeling and summarize it as "yes its good" or "no not really".......what is it? You know what to do from there.
PS Don't forget to use protection every time, its so important. No regrets!
