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October 6, 2005, 10:43 am PDT
 Quote From: branrw21 Who actually agrees with you?
I don't think the person was attacking your character, or trying to. They were merely trying to get you to be open-minded on sexuality. I'm so appauled that you think this way. Yes, you are entitled to your opinion, but really, what has been taught to you isn't always true. Therefore your basing your opinion on what you thought was true, b/c you were taught it was, and what is ACTUALLY true. I truely believe there are so many people that don't REALLY understand the Bible. The Bible is in a completely different language then the language we speak today. Therefore you can't put them side by side and say they both equal. In order for you to really understand the Bible, you need to decipher it, word for word. There are people who have jobs in this. I'm assuming you are against masturbation as well. You need to do some research on what the Bible really means, especially when it comes to sexuality. You know the story of Onan, and how the old Christianity taught that masturbation and basically sexuality was wrong and a sin? Here's the real story: straightdope.com/mailbag/monanism.html
You are still in this old Christian based mindset that your sexuality is a negative and sinful thing. That's like saying the old Mormon ways of life is just fine and dandy. See the problem didn't really start with you though, the problem started centuries ago and continued. I bet whoever taught you it was wrong, was taught themselves that it was wrong, and so forth. It's like comparing it with someone who abuses their children. They were taught that it was the way of life, so they teach their children, and so forth. Just b/c they were taught that way doesn't make it true. Just b/c men were taught to not show emotion b/c it would show weakness, doesn't make it true. So how is your sexuality any different? The Sexual Revolution needed to happen in order for people to finally "Get It" and not to be ashamed of their sexuality. You need to embrace your sexuality!! It's apart of who you are. You are wired this way. I love how in one paragraph my whole life has been summed up to a bunch of strangers. From the way I was raised to the way I perceive the Bible. You all need to take a closer look at things. I made an extreme quote, yes, because the pure disgust I felt after that segment warranted it. This woman is clearly being manipulated by her (excuse me for saying) morbidly obese husband to do something she obviously finds disgusting, and humiliating and simply doesn't want to do. He brought her on NATIONAL TELEVISION to try and prove his point. My sexuality is not at question here. It IS my belief that the only place a man should EJACULATE is either in a condom, in a woman who is on birth control, or in the vagina in order to procreate. I'm not asking you to share my beliefs, I'm asking you to respect them.
No one should have to do that if they don't want to. I find it disgusting that a man would pressure a woman into doing that when she clearly does not want to. That's the real issue at hand here. She doesn't want your "sexual revolution" to be pushed on her. She has her sexuality. A "sexual revolution" should mean that people are able to make their own choices regarding the topic, not be forced into doing something that is supposed to be socially acceptable now, since this "sexual revolution".
You have no right to sum me up with your ridiculous presumptuous remarks regarding my up-bringing and sexuality. My sexuality is perfectly fine. I don't need you to tell me it's "a part of who I am". When someone has beliefs that are maybe "old fashioned" to you or primitive to you it doesn't mean they're wrong or that they are unhappy. I am perfectly happy with my life and when I say I believe in something, by golly, I sure do believe in it and if I didn't enjoy it and have strong feelings about it, guess what, I wouldn't believe in it. So keep your assumptions to yourself regarding me and my life, let's stick to the topics. You go ahead live your life the way you see fit. Have promiscuous sex, give blow jobs, get married, have monogamous sex, do whatever your little heart desires, just keep your comments regarding my life to yourself, because I'm perfectly fine with my life. I'm not trying to push my Bible on you, so don't try to push your immoral sexuality on me.
My place in this subject is to defend ALL women and ALL men alike who are being forced into this new sex craze. Pornography, blow jobs, sodomy, same sex partners, rubber penises that run on batteries, golden showers, bestiality, etc. "I am a heterosexual, don't beg me to have sex with a woman because it pleases you, it's not who I am". "I do not enjoy watching young women exploit themselves in pornography, it's not who I am". "I DO NOT believe that my anus is a place for your penis". "I am not comfortable with a battery operated object being placed on, around, or in my genitalia unless a gynecologist is behind the wheel". No one should be questioning who they are regarding sex. If you're not comfortable with something, DON'T DO IT!!! PLAIN AND SIMPLE. Your life is your own and sex is something sacred. Your body is a temple for your spirit. Never allow that to be violated if you are not comfortable with it. That's all I'm trying to say here. |
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