Replies to '12/27 The Nanny Affair, Part 2'

Quote From: kristy_kymom

Amy isnt as weak as she wants everyone think she is. She has ganged up on her husband with Heidi and anyone else who would take her side. Brandon has some serious issues and he really needs help. Many people have said that Brandon is an abuser and they never change. Its very hard to change when everyone around you is saying you cant. I dont believe that it is wrong for Amy to believe in her husband. My father was very abusive for 12 years, but he did change. The last 11 years of his life he attended church and therapy and really was a devoted father and husband to us. My mother divorced him and it was like a wake up call. They started from scratch. He was out of the house for 3 years with no "sleepovers" only 2-3 hour visits. Brandon needs help. The only way he can is to work on one thing at a time. He has to fix his self before he can fix the relationship with Amy. Heidi is not wrong for not wanting her friend to be in an abusive relationship, however telling Amy that if she goes back to Brandon she wont be her friend anymore I do not agree with. Amy needs a true friend who advises her, not one who says do it my way or Im not talking to you anymore. Thats very selfish and childish. She loves her husband and wants to believe in him and that isnt wrong.