Replies to '12/26 The Nanny Affair, Part 1'

Quote From: lovinglife1

The affair happend over 2 or 3 years ago, a lot of time has past and you still expect him to "shed tears" over it! And I really don't think her friend is a good person, why woudl they be having NO problems for the past 5 months and then wow all of a sudden they are when her friend appeared on the show! Everyone I've talked to about this show think her friend is an instigater and needs to get her own life and let these two figure things out for themselves! Dr. Phil pointed out why Brandon woudl act the way he has and Brandon is willing to work on it. You don't know what Brandon went through in his childhood and maybe it is hard for him. Oh ya and he took responsiblity for the cheating....he said he was at fault as well. I think he was on the show to talk about how to make himself a better person, a better husband and a better father and not focus on the affair that happend 2 or 3 years ago!! Amy has forgiven him for that so lets get over it! How can you know if the kids are happy or not, they weren't even mentioned. Their was one episode about Brandon hosing down his daughter instead of giving her a spanking when she was in trouble, and if that is the way he was raised then he wouldn't know any better! People always parent the way they were raised until they are told otherwise and learn to change their ways, WHICH BRANDON IS WORKING ON! Also Amy didn't stop him from doing this because she knew it was the way he was raised.  Brandon is working on it so why don't you just give him the chance to try and change before you shut him down! Are you saying taht just because he has had bad choices in the past (which he admits too) he will always be a bad person! Maybe i'm just too optimistic but I think, if he is actually going to work at it let him have the chance. As for her friend, I'm sure if we did a show on her past she would need A LOT of help as well!