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September 15, 2007, 11:34 am PDT

Des age matter

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i was unhappily married to someone 17 years older than me....my aunt is married to someone 25 years older and they are very happy....my sister is married to a man 17 years younger than her and they are ecstatic....it depends on the person, not the age.  my sister and her husband have very similar views on religion, music, and many other things plus they both think the other is hot stuff!  if you are compatible, you are compatible....i will say 38 with an 18 year old is a little weird..i can't think of a thing i would say to an 18 year old but.....maybe they aren't talking......
Yes it definitely does.  My dtr. dated some one 13 yrs. younger then her.  They did fine for a while.  Then he decided if they have children it would be a problem. He was 23 she 38.  He felt that they could have a baby born imperfect with her age difference.  What a stupid thing to think about.  They broke up.  It was hard on her, but she is a better person then him.  Judy
 
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September 17, 2007, 9:09 pm PDT

IT REALLY HAPPENED TO ME

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i was unhappily married to someone 17 years older than me....my aunt is married to someone 25 years older and they are very happy....my sister is married to a man 17 years younger than her and they are ecstatic....it depends on the person, not the age.  my sister and her husband have very similar views on religion, music, and many other things plus they both think the other is hot stuff!  if you are compatible, you are compatible....i will say 38 with an 18 year old is a little weird..i can't think of a thing i would say to an 18 year old but.....maybe they aren't talking......

When I was 53 years old, a guy who was just 18 developed a very, very big crush on me that

lasted 2 and a half years.  When I noticed how ga-ga he was over me, I began to fall for him,

too.  I have to add that I had not one wrinkle and looked at least 15 yrs younger than my age,

so he thought I was much younger than I really was.  When he found out my true age, he

decided to break it off with me, but had somebody else tell me it was over becuz he knew

he could not face me and not want to still be with me.  We had HUGE chemistry between us

and surprisingly we liked the same type music and movies.  We actually had alot in common.

He was raised by his grandparents and was use to always being around older people, so I

guess it didn't bother him that much.  He gave me gifts and romantic cards.  After the breakup

he still kept his email box open for me to write him for like 4 years.  So, I think he is still sorry

that he had to break it off with me becuz he knows we were like soulmates.  He just could not

stand the criticism of his family and friends concerning us.  He is 25 now and finally married

someone 5 yrs younger than himself.  I don't know how that is working, but hopefully, he is

happy.

 


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