Replies to '09/21 Does Age Matter?'

get your sone out of this....she is a chid molester.!!!!!.that is just to to much..i am 45 and my son is 20...and how far off is that really....not very.!I have dated men younger than me..but not younger than 8 years..and even there was a difference then..as a matter of fact they are allways a bit younger so i'm trying not to be a hypocrite..she is just sick.and i would take a look at his relationship[ with his mother.

That is  is what desperate people would do just to convince them selves that what they think they have is real ,But then reality of the matter catches up with them and no one like the result of it .Yes i do believe it is a good ,When you feel that way that you  acually convince yourself that it is all real ,of which is not !what your all douing is wasting each other 's time .FIne someone your own age .!

 I get very defensive with these kind of messages,"she's like a child molestor" give me a break and welcome to the 20th century!! You may not accept the situation but that doesn't give you the right  to call her a child molester! It takes two to tango. I was 18 when i met my husband and he was 38 we have now been together for 8 years, are married, and have 2 sensational children!  Age is just a number it is the maturity of the person that really matters!  We have had a great relationship from the begining and were together for 4 years before we got married. My family accepts us and are very happy for me that i found someone to share my life with. If they didn't accept it i would tell them to get over it and just be happy for me that i'm happy! 

 

 I am very happy to hear all the sucess stories on the board!!

time to let go of the umbilical cord..he is an ADULT now...My fiance is almost 21 and I am 42 call me what you will OR those who are dating younger men...His family is so accepting and so are my family. Just because a man is your OWN age or older does not make them a better choice. I can tell you My man is MORE mature then most of the numbskulls I had been with.

 

Sorry mom sometimes you gotta let them make their own choices...How do you know she is not a nice person??? How do you know he had little experience? were you there every waking minute? YOU have NO clue what your child will hide from you..its not like ti was when you were younger trust me.

 

I can tell you my man has experienced more then I ever did..even his father said the same thing and is proud of who we are as a couple...instead of feeling ill about it WHY not see where it takes them instead of being SO judgemental..i do not see God written on your forehead