Quote From: farmerchikHi,
Thank you for replying to my message. Actually, you said to me exactly what I've been thinking but I felt that maybe I was wrong. I need to learn to follow my gut instinct instead of my heart sometimes.
We had another discussion last night but again, I don't think it went anywhere. I guess I'm going to have to take control of the situation and do like you said, move on with or without him.
All I want in life is to be happy and so far, that's the only thing I haven't been.
Sincerely,
Farmerchik
Farmerchik,
You can be happy in this life. It's about the choices you make and what you're willing to accept in this life. Your boyfriend keeps the "other woman" simply because he can. If this bothers you, you have to be willing to walk away.
You deserve to have all the emotional energy your boyfriend has to give. You deserve not to compete with someone else for his affections. If you are unhappy with this behavior and he's unwilling to negotiate a solution you can both be excited about, then it's time for you to walk. There's only so much you can do. If you let this continue, you will never be happy.
