When I said to let this ruin your wanting to get married, I meant don't let this ruin your wanting to get married!!
Thanks! I've thought about trying to just wait it out, but I wasnt sure. We are really serious about getting married, and are only waiting on our money situation to improve so we can afford to do it without going into debt, since we know we wont get any help from his family at all. I doubt they'll attend.
