Replies to '03/26 "Change My Face, Change My Race"'

I stand behind my title. Hear this all of you: I'm white, European, a natural blond (invisible eyelashes, brows - until I color them,) green eyed, tall, slim, etc. but ONE NASTY MOTHER BITCH if anyone tries to intimidate, threaten, or bully me into obedience! That said, I don't know if I have right to comment on this topic, since it looks like I have all the desirables.  I'm more than my looks, so, I believe I do have that right. White people have really screwed a lot of races; why would a beautiful, sexy, intelligent woman of other than white race want to be "white-looking" is beyond me. I find Asian, Black, Native and East Indian women absurdly beautiful. Regardless of color of skin or shape of eyes, the BIGGEST issue here is self-esteem, self-pride and ethno-self identity. Men will love you no less, or no more if you have this or that feature; men, women will not love you less, or more if you have this or that feature. It's who you are inside that counts. You don't go to bed with "aligned nose" or "white" looking eyelids, etc. That may work only for one-night-stands.

I would love to have an opportunity to pluck the heck out of my black, bushy eyebrows; love to go without mascara, love to have SOME color to my skin. But I wasn't given that. You may think it's easy for me to speak like this because I haven't walked in your pumps; OK. That's fair. But hear me out. If you are a woman who feels she NEEDS to look a certain way (e.g. change your ethnicity throuth looks ) in order to be desirable to a man, you're in for a catastrophic let-down. Sure, you'll have many men who will want to bed you, but will they be willing to make a commitment? WHAT DO YOU ALL FACE/RACE CHANGING PEOPLE HOPE TO HAPPEN?  If you don't feel good about yourself before the "life-changin-procedure" you're not going to feel better after it.