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March 25, 2008, 7:26 am PDT
Someone I can finally relate to
Quote From: chesney123 hey don't get discouraged why don't you try creating a romantic evening for two whether it be a romantic dinner of his favorites or a bubble bath for two with candles and strawberries or why don't you do a striptease just for him to turn him on men are visual people he sounds like quite a man it is so awesome that he helps out i wish tell him or better show him what you want the joy of sex book may help or mabye even kama sutra if you are really feeling adventerous if you have no kids then you should be like rabbits be more spontaneous answer the door naked be his eye candy mabye he just needs more direction hope this helps sweetie hang in there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My husband and I have been married a little over a year. We married on Valentines Day too, the "most romantic day of the year" Yeah Right. Before we married it was everyday ( He got satisfied, I didn't ) Now, it's not even once a month anymore. I've done all the "talking" asking him if it was me? Is there someone else? and so on. I "communicated my frustration" on how when we do have sex that I need to be included in the orgasms too, and if he gets off to quick, this is what he can do. Also the position he likes is MOST UNCOMFORTABLE TO SAY THE LEAST adding insult to injury. And if one more person tells me size doesn't matter, I'm going to scream! Here's a clue you can't use something you don't have. I've tried the "roll playing" "the romantic dinners" "talking to him without threatening his manhood" and all of the above. What kills me even more is when he makes suggestions that he's in the mood, but come bed time, the only thing he's in the mood for is sleep. Then when he can't hold out any longer, and I refuse, because I know what's coming, he gets angry, makes snide remarks, pouts like a baby and throws a tantrum like a little kid. I too struggle with the fact that beside the lack of or no intimacy at all, he's a good man, he works, I stay home, he helps with the housework even thou I insist he not because he works, does the lawn, takes the kids fishing and so on. He scores a 100 in 99% of the categories of a good husband, but I'm so lonely and frustrated. I need a husband in every sense of the word. I have been married several times and cringe at the thought of putting my children through another divorce. I've read the suggestions, been there done that, now does anyone have any suggestions on what did work?
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