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I have been with my boyfriend on and off for the pasted three an a half years now. He has been there for me at my lows time's in my life. He just asked me to move in with him a month ago but he told me a few days ago that he isn't giving up his female friend's that he has went and did thing's with such as "going camping with them and sleeping in the same tent together but nothing happened!" <-----This is why it has been a off and on again relationship. All my friends and family tell me that he is having a mid life and other's tell me that he is having a Emotional Affair with this women but he dosn't think so? He told me that he has never asked me to give up anything but I can't see my son due to his dog<---Long story, and now I can only see my daughter if his dog isn't here when I get her on my weekends again<----Long story. He was married once but has been divorced now for 5yrs (He cheated on wife with her own sister 20yrs ago) He told me that i'm making a big deal out of nothing? and my friends and family tell me to just be quit because I have no where else to go thanks to my assholes of ex hubby's. Everytime I try to talk to him about how i'm feeling about this he totally turns it around on me, when we start talking again after breaking up he tells me this line of crap and a few weeks down the road the story change's and again he turns it around on me, and when I find out thing's he gets mad and tells me to get out.. I have a problem with his type of friend's or am I wrong in thinking this way?<----Been there done this with the last two hubby's!!!! A few days ago I got tired of hearing his crap so the email's that he sent me before getting back together this last time I had went an sent them to these's two women they both have either called, emailed or imed him about them. Was I in the wrong for doing this? Just last night the other one that I emailed the info to that had called him about it and that his mommy tried to set him up with which is one of her friend's the one that he told me that he only talked to once when he came over to my old place to ask me to move in with him intil last night when she called him and I found out that he too asked her to go to Vegas with him next Feb for his brothers wedding but he told her the same lame story as he told the other one I won't have the money unless they buy his way then i'm sure he will go.. Am I wrong in feeling this way? Doing theses thing's? Is he suger coating thing's to get what he want's from me and the other's? Why is it I always fall for the wrong guy's? Don't get me wrong I do truely love this man and am scared to be without him but when is it enough? Advise and Help Please