and I think for her that was the "going back" you know? It's very difficult to break away from that dink of person to start with and Jennifer was so young when they met & married it must have been very difficult. Grown women are suckered in by con men all the time & once there are kids and such it just becomes so much more difficult to get away. Of course on top of that I think every woman wants to "work to make her marriage work" and they just don't see it for what it is & until they've tried over & over they can't see it's impossible because they've been set up to fail. I just don't think anyone sees abuse from sone they love & who professes to love them & then once they do breaking away is a very difficult & *dangerous thing*. Jennifer was extremely lucky I believe to have had such attention drawn on her story with the Dr. Phil show because so many women like her end up a statistic that isn't a happy ending.
I have a *view from afar* & I do believe she has made her break from him & is doing well but it's only been a year & if he doesn't get help cause he *wants help* it's when the attention is gone that it'll be the most dangerous for her IMO. She really isn't out of the woods yet even thought she may be in a safe place now. I hope to heck she knows this & if she's reading along on this message board I hope she reads it here , hears it & keeps it in mind. The manipulation & *retaliation* is not over until Jeffrey is truly helped or redirects his obcession & abuse. Like with his first wife.
