Quote From: shelleyn05Farmerchik,
You can be happy in this life. It's about the choices you make and what you're willing to accept in this life. Your boyfriend keeps the "other woman" simply because he can. If this bothers you, you have to be willing to walk away.
You deserve to have all the emotional energy your boyfriend has to give. You deserve not to compete with someone else for his affections. If you are unhappy with this behavior and he's unwilling to negotiate a solution you can both be excited about, then it's time for you to walk. There's only so much you can do. If you let this continue, you will never be happy.
After 2 divorces and a lot of pain over relationships being trashed, I discovered my criteria was to WATCH WHAT PEOPLE DO! NOT WHAT THEY SAY! My family relationships and friendships are now stable. I quit playing the victim to those about me. It Works!!!
