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October 12, 2007, 5:37 am PDT

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I am beginning to get more and more concerned about letting my son attend college away from home. Just yesterday someone walked into a school in the town where my son is to attend technical college and shot 14 people. I dont want my son, who comes from a small town, to have to be in fear of his life durring this special time in his life. He won a $5,000 scolarship to Ohio Techinal College and is thrilled to death. He is a senior this year and has such a promising life ahead of him. I biggest dread is that phone call in the middle of the night telling me he has died due to some random stupid act of voilence.

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Bonnie K****, Niles Michigan

This has got to stop happening.  What have we become as a society and why is this happening at such an alarming rate?  My deepest sympathies go to the families.  God bless you all. 
 
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October 12, 2007, 6:28 am PDT

10/12 Homecoming Shooting

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I am beginning to get more and more concerned about letting my son attend college away from home. Just yesterday someone walked into a school in the town where my son is to attend technical college and shot 14 people. I dont want my son, who comes from a small town, to have to be in fear of his life durring this special time in his life. He won a $5,000 scolarship to Ohio Techinal College and is thrilled to death. He is a senior this year and has such a promising life ahead of him. I biggest dread is that phone call in the middle of the night telling me he has died due to some random stupid act of voilence.

I watch you every day and really get a lot of insight from your shows.

Bonnie K****, Niles Michigan

As the parent of a recent college graduate, let me give you some advice. Let your son go to school and enjoy the most wonderful time of his life. He got a scholarship. Congratulations to both of you. And why in the world are you worrying your life away about getting a call in the middle of the night that something has happened to him? What a waste of time? I sure hope you haven't told him about any of that.

 

Let him go. He'll make new friends. He'll learn how to take care of himself. He'll make mistakes and learn on his own how to get over it. Just be there for him when he wants to talk. But for heaven's sake don't burden him with all of your angst. That won't do either of you any good. 

 
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October 12, 2007, 8:12 am PDT

10/12 Homecoming Shooting

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I am beginning to get more and more concerned about letting my son attend college away from home. Just yesterday someone walked into a school in the town where my son is to attend technical college and shot 14 people. I dont want my son, who comes from a small town, to have to be in fear of his life durring this special time in his life. He won a $5,000 scolarship to Ohio Techinal College and is thrilled to death. He is a senior this year and has such a promising life ahead of him. I biggest dread is that phone call in the middle of the night telling me he has died due to some random stupid act of voilence.

I watch you every day and really get a lot of insight from your shows.

Bonnie K****, Niles Michigan

 We sent our son to a 4 year college this year in the same state.  We talked to the college about security  both on campus and  the dorms. We reviewed everything.  They have phones for security all over campus. The Dorms allow entrance by college ID only.  The lobby security won't allow anyone into the Dorm until they talk to the student who lives there. I realize it is no guarantee.  But ask a lot of questions.  Most colleges are taking this seriously. They are also getting tougher on drinking giving tickets, court dates, fines , community service working with the local DA.  But  the college experience and degree  is wanted for him.   It  is scary. But in one year he has grown and matured.  Good Luck   Just know there are a lot of parents in the same sitution.
 


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