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October 15, 2007, 10:48 am PDT
I disagree
Quote From: viewerinpaAmber definately should NOT write Colin off yet. My husband had the same problem and we struggled through it for years till he was finally diagnosed with Bipolar depression. Medications have changed him completely and he has been the best husband I could have asked for. Instead of dumping Colin, Amber should try to get him to seek help. If he won't get the help he needs, that's a different story, but she should try before giving up and definately before walking down that isle. You cannot make anyone do anything and Amber cannot make Colin seek help never mind make him take the help. If they're at the point where they're coming on *national television* to see "is this normal?" then to me it means that Colin does not want to seek help. If he fly's off the handle and doesn't see that as a problem & the *idea that he might lose Amber* doesn't make him seek help then he *doesn't want to* or he just doesn't care. If he loved her enough and didn't want to see her hurt he would have sought help long ago to get his problem under control. Actions speak much louder than words and his inaction says he *does not care*. You cannot love someone & *not care*.
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