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October 15, 2007, 5:46 pm PDT
That husband was not an innocent bystander!
Quote From: swtbbw2YOU SAY THAT SHE NEEDS TO LEARN SOME DECENCY? WHAT ABOUT HIM? YOU SAY THAT SHE BROKE UP A MARRIAGE..SHE DIDNT BREAK IT ...THEY DID...IT NEVER LIES WITH JUST ONE PERSON IT TAKES TWO REMEMBER..UNLESS HE SPENT TIME IN BED WITH HIMSELF. YOU CANT JUST SAY THE OTHER WOMAN (OR MAN FOR THAT MATTER) BROKE UP THE MARRIAGE. MAYBE IT WAS SOMETHING YOU WERENT DOING THAT MADE HIM OR HER STRAY IN THE FIRST PLACE. HEY IF YOU LOOK AT IT THERE ARE THREE PEOPLE WHO ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR DESTROYING A MARRIAGE..YOU, HIM AND THE OTHER WOMAN(OR MAN).
P.S. NO I HAVE NEVER BEEN THE OTHER WOMAN. I HAVE HAD A COUPLE OF MEN WHO DOWNRIGHT LIED TO ME AND SAID THEY WERE NOT MARRIED OR THEIR WIFE HAD DIED....YEAH RIGHT...AND YES AFTER CHECKING OUT EVERYTHING HE TOLD ME ABOUT HIMSELF, I GOT A MAN!!! I agree with your post, for the most part She shouldn't just blame the woman! Her husband was not an innocent bystander in all this, but rather an active participant in cheating and betrayal. Both the ex wife and the husband are responsible for their terrible behavior!! I don't know though that we could say that the person cheated on is also a responsible party without knowing the facts. Yes, in some cases cheating is the end result of something missing in a marriage, but let's face it. Some people are just rats and would cheat on the sweetest spouse in the world.
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