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October 7, 2005, 6:31 am PDT
use the semse God gave you..please
Quote From: mothermoonHow can you call yourself an advocate for breastfeeding and make a rude comment like that.
I have seen many a breastfeeding mom and I have never in my life seen a woman just "WHIP IT Out " as you say happens. The only time I have ever seen a woman whip it out was in r rated movies with such material.
I am in 100% serious doubt that any of these breastfeeding moms are feeding their children in public for the sheer joy of presenting herself just so.
In fact I have meet many people in my day that do find deficating in public extremely funny, and quite enjoyable if I do remember.
perhaps you shpould focus your attention on the people who are actually doing things that are offensive to the public...like 16 yr old girls walking around with skirts so short you can see neverland....I find that more OBSCENE then a BFing mom.
But if you insist on whiping yours out by all means bring it on.....I for one will not find it obscene or offensive ..a little odd yes but offended no. Yes, breastfeeding is a natural act, as is the above mentioned..which we would be ticketed for doing in public. If you feel your child benefits from breastmilk..great..pump a few bottles before you go into public. Nobody wants to see a child suckling on an exposed breast in public. It is rude and in bad taste. Although none of these are the breastfeeding mothers "issues"..they are issues none the less..they are the following. Young boys and even some men are turned on nomatter what the cicumstance, when i n eyeshot of an exposed breast..not to mention something sucking on it. Do you really want boys and men feeling sexually aroused while they stare at you feeding your child? That is exactly what is happening. Women know this and when with their men and in the presence of a breastfeeding woman, feel terribly uncomfortable. Another example, I have had the displeasure of trying to do business with a woman who felt it urgent to put her child to her breast while I was with her..I couldn't even look her in the eye, and got the hell out of there as soon as I could make a break for it. Bottomline is that it really makes people feel uncomfortable in many different ways, some of which are quite perverse. Please, use your sense..go to a restroom, pump a few bottles before you leave, but ladies..it is never in good taste to bare your breasts in public for ANY reason.
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