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October 17, 2007, 7:40 am PDT

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I'm not sure a sane person will ever understand what drives an adult to take sexual pleasure with a child--to be sexually attracted to babies.  It's not something we can comprehend.  Whether it's a sickness/mental illness or just a disgusting perversion, these people must be held accountable.  Speaking as an adult survivor of child sexual abuse, I can say with the utmost confidence, that this poor child will be haunted by this her entire life.  I was assaulted at the same age, but it continued for 8 years.  I am now 53 and still battling the demons.  I pray that baby gets the help she needs.
Molestation is just the worse thing to happen at any age.  I'm 57 and still deal with it and I was a little girl and molested by a family member who says "he doesn't remember doing anything to me?"  Well, I do!  The flashbacks at times have caused me so much mental pain.  Thankfully I have a husband who I can confide in and be my ROCK.  These children "do" remember.  At least we talk about it more TODAY.  I have found out about so many girls that I knew and grew up with were molested.  Thank goodness for shows like this to hopefully bring out the SIGNS to watch out for.  Our children need protection!!! NOW!!!! 
 
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October 17, 2007, 10:53 am PDT

10/17 Sexual Predators?

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I'm not sure a sane person will ever understand what drives an adult to take sexual pleasure with a child--to be sexually attracted to babies.  It's not something we can comprehend.  Whether it's a sickness/mental illness or just a disgusting perversion, these people must be held accountable.  Speaking as an adult survivor of child sexual abuse, I can say with the utmost confidence, that this poor child will be haunted by this her entire life.  I was assaulted at the same age, but it continued for 8 years.  I am now 53 and still battling the demons.  I pray that baby gets the help she needs.

I was abused as a child in many ways.PLEASE see this baby gets the right help for many years to come,She will need it.I,m 50 and  now seeking help.My story is long and I do not exprss my thoughts well.I said the words out loud a few weeks ago for the first time to my psychiatris.  
 
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October 17, 2007, 11:13 am PDT

10/17 Sexual Predators?

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I'm not sure a sane person will ever understand what drives an adult to take sexual pleasure with a child--to be sexually attracted to babies.  It's not something we can comprehend.  Whether it's a sickness/mental illness or just a disgusting perversion, these people must be held accountable.  Speaking as an adult survivor of child sexual abuse, I can say with the utmost confidence, that this poor child will be haunted by this her entire life.  I was assaulted at the same age, but it continued for 8 years.  I am now 53 and still battling the demons.  I pray that baby gets the help she needs.
Thank you for that insightful statement. I'm sorry for you pain as I too have lived with it since the age of five. It doesn't just happen to girls/women though for I am a man and it happens to us too. Most men just feel to ashamed to let it be known. I know therapy doesn't take away all the memories and pain but it gives one the tools to embrace it and accept that it is a part of who we are, want it or not, because it does affect who we are and how we interact with life and other people. May God grant you peace and rest from your demons.
 
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October 17, 2007, 8:01 pm PDT

10/17 Sexual Predators?

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I'm not sure a sane person will ever understand what drives an adult to take sexual pleasure with a child--to be sexually attracted to babies.  It's not something we can comprehend.  Whether it's a sickness/mental illness or just a disgusting perversion, these people must be held accountable.  Speaking as an adult survivor of child sexual abuse, I can say with the utmost confidence, that this poor child will be haunted by this her entire life.  I was assaulted at the same age, but it continued for 8 years.  I am now 53 and still battling the demons.  I pray that baby gets the help she needs.
i feel really bad for that baby and i hope that dude who Raped that little girl dies painfully   
 
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