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October 17, 2007, 7:38 am PDT
I see this as part of the problem
Quote From: niki31So the saga begins...........My sister went out with a guy who IS a sexual predator at first she had no idea....She has to little girls and I myself have a daughter. Well, later in their relationship my siser apparently found out who he was by the sex offender website the state has and decided to keep going out with him she just figured he was no harm.........WHAT.........Then at the time years ago he had sexually molested his daughter at the time she was 4 years old until she was 15 years old..........SICK....GROSS.........DISCUSTING...........TERRIABLE..........OK,So now my sister breaks up with him but doesn't say why she broke up with him. Next thing you know my sister is on the computer and finds an e-mail from him to my MOM.......What the hell is going on????? Now mind you he is not suppost to use the computer but only for work. Well, my sister confronted my Mom and ........WHAT THE ????? My Mom was now going out with him......Did somebody miss something here........Cheating on my Dad with a sex offender and My Mom says he found God. Yeah, not quiet if you ask my opinoin. So, now he was fired from work for some totally different reason........BUT........when someone from his work was cleaning out his office they found bad gross pictures of little kids and the work destroyed them instead of giving them to the police....So now the police have absolutley NOTHING to go on. My Mom is still with him and says she is very happy........Well be happy then......There is no way she is seeing her grandchildren!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That some women are so bent on having a man in their lives they don't care who it is and put their children at risk! I am a single mother and I don't date...I hear too many horror stories like this and on the news of some 'boyfriend' abusing the single mom's children...I WILL put my child first. He didn't ask to be born and depends on me to protect him. I cannot be so selfish that I risk putting him in danger because I think I need a man. The way things on in this world now, its just too great of a risk to even attempt to date when you have children. I get along fine without a man in my life...I don't need a man to make me happy. Sure I would love to be married to a good mentally healthly man and give my son a father that can set a good role model for him... (my ex-husband, my son's dad is in prison by the way for raping a 17 year old...so you can see why I am leery of going down that road again). But its just too risky anymore...I figure if God wants me to get married again He will arrange it...I tend to find the wrong kind of man (my ex being an example of that). Meanwhile I get along just fine without dating.
I also don't see all men as a threat like apparently some on here do either. There are good men out there...most already married though. Women I swear, I want to just smack them upside the head sometimes and tell them to quit being so dang blind!! I know in many of these cases such as with this little girl there was actually a babysitter there...NOT this man...how he got rid of the babysitter to abuse this little girl is yet unknown...sometimes things are out of our control....but many times this can be prevented if women like your sister would quit being so stupid....and your mother....good grief! Yes keep your children away from her while she is dating this man!!!!!! Your sister isn't the first woman I have heard of that knew a man was a sex offender yet still chose to date him anyway. You have to wonder what is going on in their heads! WHY in the world would you put your children at risk like this...WHO cares if he says he is innocent or has changed..its NOT worth risking the well being of your children like this! Use your brains ladies and THINK! geesh.
And realize women AND children sexual abuse too! Its NOT just men by any means...:(
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