Replies to '06/06 Suing for Love'

My ex-husband cheated on me through out our marriage.  I would never think to sue the "other woman."  I can't believe how many woman want to sue.  It was my ex's responsibility not hers.  He was married.  I can't blame the other person, because it is totally up to the spouse to be faithful.  I have since divorced him and moved on and got re-married to an amazing man.  If he ever cheated on me, I wouldn't fight for him, I'd cut him loose, because if he doesn't want to be with me, then who needs him - lol. 

I have found that anger is pretty useless, unless it comes to defending my family.  Short term anger is fine, but not carrying it around for months or years only makes you a bitter person.

I never fought with my ex in front of my daughter during the divorce.  I would have someone take her for ice cream or something and then blast him.  But I guess I'm strange, as we both wanted the divorce and we never stepped into court.

Trying to destroy the other person because you are hurting isn't going to make you feel better in the long run.  So I personally think that law is retarded and dumb.  But that is just my opinion. 

I'm generally a happy person and try to see the positive.  I feel my ex and I were to be married to create the most beautiful daughter that we have.  She is 15 and beautiful inside and out.  I am lucky and blessed to have found the sweetest man in the world who loves us both with all his heart.

My ex has re-married also, and I get along with his wife as we all agree that being there for Melissa is the most important thing there is.  So my daughter ended up with four parents who love her dearly.

I wish all who are hurting and angry, that you find peace and contentment in your lives.

Take care,

Terri