I understand that there are many factors running against you - from going out to dinner to the commercials that fill the airwaves and that its hard work to stay sober. THis guy has been living with an enabler who brought her two daughters up to be enablers -- even on the show the 14 year old said they need help and not the kind where the insurance company yanks him out of rehab after 9 days - cause you see its the insurance company's fault for not giving him the help he needed - nevermind that it was his 6th attempt at rehab. My own brother is sober 15 years - and its hard - its hard on the entire family - but its well worth it. Neither the mother or the father wanted to do the real hard work towards a sober family - they left two kids there to try and do it for them. That's the shame here - two kids are paying the heaviest price.