Quote From: damara1210I Do Not Care What reason he or she gives as to why they put their hands on their wife or husband. It is wrong, and there is no way, reason, or thought you can give me for fighting in front of your child or children. Do these people not understand the pure damage they are doing to their child or children. Do they not understand that they are ripping the child's mind and body apart.
These people need their children placed in a safer place, and they need allot of time apart. in fact I vote for a immediate divorce. I believe that if it has become violent physical then the marriage is over, and there is no Sorry, Forgiving, or returning from that type of harm. It's over, and it time to say Goodbye to all. Now the only thing left is to fix the damage done to the child or children, and to make a serious go of never repeating the damage to them again. Period, NO HITTING!!!!!
Diddo, I couldn't agree with you more. Good insight and at this point, they're both guilty of abuse and endangerment. Only if... I'm sure they both are hoping each other will change and things will be peachy, but the reality is when someone lives all messed up for 30 years of their lives, it takes at least 5-10 years of therapy and hard work to get past that, and in the meanwhile, the child's suffering and being exposed to toxic bs. The fact that Kevin is so violent and abusive makes me afraid for both of them. That's the problem when the gut values a woman for only her looks. We all are a work in progress, but that doesn't change the behavior that they both choose to do. Nice post by: shanecp68@yahoo
