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October 31, 2007, 8:52 am PDT
Domestic Violence
Quote From: sharperkGet out, get out, get out, I was once a victim of a 'one time' physical explosion after a 10 year marriage; by the Grace of God I live today! that is the only explanation I can allow! I was so hurt, I can barely walk from all the damage done to me! a one time attack!! I hope that woman wakes up, my belief is people don't hurt the ones they love period! My parents raised all of us to beieve that, somehow I married someone who controlled his rage for the 10 year, except as I look back I am able to see signs I ignored, but when he snapped in his black rage, he nearly killed me! Please get out, once they have hit you, you are always thinking and so are they that they can beat you again! At least my parents brought me up that way, Iost my parents already and loved them to the fullest and have no regrets in their lives, except the fact that they are gone! They did a wonderful job of bringing up us kids! To the lady & your daughter, get out and get help, and all the abusive monstors should be arrested and placed into a cage/jail; that is where anything that is attacking you belongs! Worried about me no. Other women being abused yes, I as one of them.I don't want to be on your show for my own personal reasons. A man I had been living with for 3 months and not because I wanted tobe...Anyways he had said to me when you get your check I want tou out of my apartment. I said no problem ,I had planned on that doing just that. I turned around walking down the hallway he came from behind me and the next thing I knew I was being thrown around like a rag doll. I seen stars , at one time I thought I was dead....Anyways I could not move, He took my car, my cell, my purse and took off, came back and begged him to please take me to the ER ...Which he had threated me made his phones and said if she says anything and I go to jail you knoow what to do...The dr. never took anyways sent me home with pain meds which he took away me......At this I was A cashier for ..............I don't want to give that info. out and I was also a diarey clerk. I was off for about a week, I was afraid to go the police at that..well guess what? This happened on July 1999-I was in so much pain I couldb't even lift a gallon of milk it would just fall out of my hands by this time I was in so much I went a private Dr. I told him everything b y this time is was October 99, he took just an regular exray of my neck ..What the xray had was my neck was broke , one of the bones was just liying on my spinal cord.....I have all of my x-rays from the time i was that my neck was.....;I had to be fused c3,4,&5......At this time the only thinf here the judge would give was a 6 month restraining order...he had all of my medical records x-rays, the judge new he was a habitual criminal....Well now I am fused 2c to 7c yes second surgery i just had in 2006......The surgery my screws broke and from there on my neck kept getting worse and worse, ..I have a tituiam plate with screws and a cage around my spinal cord.......And this monster his still running around here in this city....He has spread the word if he ever runs into he will make sure he kills me next......I thank the lord above was watching over......no that wasn't the first physical abuse....Once a man abuses he will always abuse.....This man has abused other women....I had one witness but she would testify because she was married and if her hubsand found out that they were even speaking to each other he would divorce her.......SO I URGE DESPERATELY ANYONE CHILD OR WOMEN THAT IS OR HAS BEEN BATTERED PLEASE GET OUT RIGHT AWAY BECAUSE IT WILL NOT STOP..............
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