Quote From: fromthesquareImagine the other side of the coin? The man raises the child as his own, making that child part of his world. Suppose the wife suspected the child was not her husband's but did not tell him. Shameful, right? In a divorce should the wife be able to produce DNA evidence and exclude the man from the life of the child? Colorado's laws on this protect both parties
and the child.
Nope, she shouldn't, BUT it happens.....
The point being...a man should have a choice, it should NOT be made for him.
I think he should not have hand over financiall support to the woman who decieved him. Let her go find the bio dad and let him support the child financially. Would the husband even have stayed in the marriage had he known his wife cheated and the child wasn't his? Who knowns? He was never given the choice!
What about the emotional bond she robbed the child of with her bio dad? He has missed out also.
And really, if you think about it, I don't think a woman should be able to go after a man out of the blue and demand child support from he bio dad and then they go back all those years and make him pay..it should start from the time he found out, because once again, it's her fault for waiting so long, plus she should have to pay back all the money she frauded the alleged father of.