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October 29, 2007, 1:22 pm PDT

32 years too late

Quote From: kyra618

I myself had a daughter over 32 years ago. I never went to her father and asked for money. I was the one whom chose to have sex with this man and chose not to let him know he was a father. I know I was not right for this but I still servived without his help. My daughter knows who her father is and makes her own choice on what time to spend with him. He is the one whom choses not to keep up with her.  Because she does not do things his way, they have an off relationship. Their choice. If a man is told he is a father to a child he is not sure of, the first thing he should do is get the DNA test. This way you dont pay for what you did not make.
You, like Maria, had no right to decide by yourself that this child should not have had a father.  It wasn't about your survival, but your daughter's well-being.  How can you expect after all the lost time that a father can just pick up a blank slate and not struggle with it.
 


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