Replies to '12/25 Parent Trap'

Thank you, Mia for responding to me, I was surprised.

You don't know me but I work with children and youth and I suppose that is where my mind set is coming from. I have to say that the money to me is the underlying issue. It has become the big issue because of the betrayal and deceit it represents. Selena is the one who will suffer possible irreparable emotional damage. As I said in my previous post it should be about Selena, she is innocent. It was not her fault what so ever. However, I suppose you cannot speak for your husband.

I wish you peace.

"As my very wise daughter pointed out; Selina needs to know her medical history and her ethnical background, at a minimum"

OH GIVE ME A BREAK! Selena looks like a perfectly healthy kid. How dare you act like a martyr and justify that Selena needed to know her health history. You, I and most of the world know it was a greed thing and about money. I "might" understand that explanation if she was a sick child, but give me a big break! Do not insult America's intelligence. In your "concern for health history, you managed to help destroy her emotional history. Now thanks to your help she can look back and tell her kids, (watch out that could happen sooner than you think..you know with the first male figure who "acts" like they love her!) tell grandkids and family members the day her dad said she was not his, and she couldn't come to visit.

YEA...really concerned for her health!

Oh and so you know, you made your husband look like a complete idiot. For you to be able to "think" she might not be his daughter....YEA! After all ready having a child with his wife and then a second one comes along...You don't think he knew? not even just a little bit? Lady if  you were able figure it out, daddy I am sure all ready did and said nothing.

So don't get all bent out of shape, he has to pay. HE LOVED THAT LITTLE GIRL. HOW CAN A WOMAN WHO IS A MOM NOT WANT THE MAN SHE IS WITH TO HELP SUPPORT KIDS HE LOVES AND HAS ANSWERED DADDY TO FOR 10 YEARS?

WAY TO GO LADY....I would stop listening to your not so wise daughter.

you have also managed to break your husbands heart from you and your daughters oh so wise council.

I am not comfortable with your reply, Mia. I feel that it doesn't make any sense from a stand point of trying to do some good. All that happened was that Sabrina got hurt. In your heart, you know what the truth is and maybe you showed poor judgment. I think that if it took you a few weeks to decide what to do than maybe you must have known what the end result could be. There might have been a better way to deal with this. It was truly wrong that he was manipulated and I think being angry is a natural response, but he is angry at Selena and he is punishing her.

I think that your husband should repair his relationship with Selena and if I were you I would tell him that his behavior although a human response is inhuman with how he is treating his daughter. Being in a marriage means being honest with each other. If I felt that my husband was being harsh with his treatment of another human being I would tell him so, as he would do for me. That does not mean that I'm not on his side and he knows that.

Remember that money does not buy us happiness. The quality of life we lead does and so does how we treat each other. This issue has become about money, not about the abandonment of a young girl.