Replies to '12/25 Parent Trap'

Quote From: upmichfan

I feel really bad for any man deceived the way he was.  But a dna does not change the bond between people, or it shouldn't.   I think that the child support thing should  not be an issue.  He isn't the biological father he should not be required to pay anything unless he chooses to do so.  I think that it should be his choice.  And most reasonable people would not break that bond how could you.  I worked with a man raising two children for 13 years and found out that they weren't his biologically.  He didn't care.  He had raised them and in his heart they were his kids and no one was going to change that.  That is how it should be.  Biology does not a parent make.  It is the time and love that you put into the relationship.