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October 7, 2005, 1:03 pm PDT

10/07 The Latest Debates

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 Dr. Phil, my beef is you missed a prime opportunity, or maybe you did it later after taping, to get into the real matter with the anti-breast woman.  It wasnt breastfeeding she had a problem with.  That was the least of it.  She obviously was hostile towards any form of self expression.  I didn't get all the program, I was busy and going in and out trying to catch it...but I am going to guess she doesnt have any children and has issues with the human body no matter what it is doing! FEED A BABY IN THE BATHROOM!!! You should have called her on that.  I realize she seemed just ready to unhinge but crap, its YOUR show.  You should have told her to get over it.  And that you DO NOT EAT IN THE JOHN!!!

I breastfed my children and I have six.  Most of them were fairly easy to convince when and where.  But Hannah, my now 17 year old...anywhere, everywhere and all the time!  There isnt a store, eating establishment (both fast food and fancy) within 100 miles of here that hasnt been breastfed in!  BY HER!  And let me just go ahead and flip you off your chair backwards...she didnt wean until she was almost 4!!!  Sometimes we were discrete and sometimes I did all I could to keep her from wanting to nurse one and "hold other one Mommy."  Not when she was 4 of course---but as a toddler. 

I have a brother in law that had issues with it...but I couldnt care less.  I didnt do it at his house in front of him but he had issues with me doing it at all!  Honestly though, he just pretty much as issues period.

Yes breasts are sexual.  They are supposed to be.  But they are also for nourishing  babies.  Men, women, whom ever is offended by it is not JUST offended by breastfeeding but have some issue with breast/nakedness and differentiating between the sexual aspect and the nurturing aspect...I suspect it is a deep seeded problem.  But hey you are the doctor.

But for goodness sakes...LOOK AWAY and quit whining.  Turn your chair.  Be a big girl.  That breastfeeding mom paid for her dinner too! 
You nursed until your daughter was 4! I would absolutely like to applaud you on that. I think you did her a great service by allowing her to decide when she was ready to wean. I plan on doing the same with daughter. :o)
 
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October 7, 2005, 1:04 pm PDT

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 Dr. Phil, my beef is you missed a prime opportunity, or maybe you did it later after taping, to get into the real matter with the anti-breast woman.  It wasnt breastfeeding she had a problem with.  That was the least of it.  She obviously was hostile towards any form of self expression.  I didn't get all the program, I was busy and going in and out trying to catch it...but I am going to guess she doesnt have any children and has issues with the human body no matter what it is doing! FEED A BABY IN THE BATHROOM!!! You should have called her on that.  I realize she seemed just ready to unhinge but crap, its YOUR show.  You should have told her to get over it.  And that you DO NOT EAT IN THE JOHN!!!

I breastfed my children and I have six.  Most of them were fairly easy to convince when and where.  But Hannah, my now 17 year old...anywhere, everywhere and all the time!  There isnt a store, eating establishment (both fast food and fancy) within 100 miles of here that hasnt been breastfed in!  BY HER!  And let me just go ahead and flip you off your chair backwards...she didnt wean until she was almost 4!!!  Sometimes we were discrete and sometimes I did all I could to keep her from wanting to nurse one and "hold other one Mommy."  Not when she was 4 of course---but as a toddler. 

I have a brother in law that had issues with it...but I couldnt care less.  I didnt do it at his house in front of him but he had issues with me doing it at all!  Honestly though, he just pretty much as issues period.

Yes breasts are sexual.  They are supposed to be.  But they are also for nourishing  babies.  Men, women, whom ever is offended by it is not JUST offended by breastfeeding but have some issue with breast/nakedness and differentiating between the sexual aspect and the nurturing aspect...I suspect it is a deep seeded problem.  But hey you are the doctor.

But for goodness sakes...LOOK AWAY and quit whining.  Turn your chair.  Be a big girl.  That breastfeeding mom paid for her dinner too! 
I completely agree!!
 
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October 7, 2005, 1:06 pm PDT

I wish we were neighbors!

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 Dr. Phil, my beef is you missed a prime opportunity, or maybe you did it later after taping, to get into the real matter with the anti-breast woman.  It wasnt breastfeeding she had a problem with.  That was the least of it.  She obviously was hostile towards any form of self expression.  I didn't get all the program, I was busy and going in and out trying to catch it...but I am going to guess she doesnt have any children and has issues with the human body no matter what it is doing! FEED A BABY IN THE BATHROOM!!! You should have called her on that.  I realize she seemed just ready to unhinge but crap, its YOUR show.  You should have told her to get over it.  And that you DO NOT EAT IN THE JOHN!!!

I breastfed my children and I have six.  Most of them were fairly easy to convince when and where.  But Hannah, my now 17 year old...anywhere, everywhere and all the time!  There isnt a store, eating establishment (both fast food and fancy) within 100 miles of here that hasnt been breastfed in!  BY HER!  And let me just go ahead and flip you off your chair backwards...she didnt wean until she was almost 4!!!  Sometimes we were discrete and sometimes I did all I could to keep her from wanting to nurse one and "hold other one Mommy."  Not when she was 4 of course---but as a toddler. 

I have a brother in law that had issues with it...but I couldnt care less.  I didnt do it at his house in front of him but he had issues with me doing it at all!  Honestly though, he just pretty much as issues period.

Yes breasts are sexual.  They are supposed to be.  But they are also for nourishing  babies.  Men, women, whom ever is offended by it is not JUST offended by breastfeeding but have some issue with breast/nakedness and differentiating between the sexual aspect and the nurturing aspect...I suspect it is a deep seeded problem.  But hey you are the doctor.

But for goodness sakes...LOOK AWAY and quit whining.  Turn your chair.  Be a big girl.  That breastfeeding mom paid for her dinner too! 
What a great view you have on things. I agree that woman had issues. FEEDING is just that! I will not do it in the dirty bathroom iether! GROW UP WORLD! It's a bottle at that point...NOT A BOOB!
 
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October 7, 2005, 1:14 pm PDT

10/07 The Latest Debates

Quote From: soapmaven

 Dr. Phil, my beef is you missed a prime opportunity, or maybe you did it later after taping, to get into the real matter with the anti-breast woman.  It wasnt breastfeeding she had a problem with.  That was the least of it.  She obviously was hostile towards any form of self expression.  I didn't get all the program, I was busy and going in and out trying to catch it...but I am going to guess she doesnt have any children and has issues with the human body no matter what it is doing! FEED A BABY IN THE BATHROOM!!! You should have called her on that.  I realize she seemed just ready to unhinge but crap, its YOUR show.  You should have told her to get over it.  And that you DO NOT EAT IN THE JOHN!!!

I breastfed my children and I have six.  Most of them were fairly easy to convince when and where.  But Hannah, my now 17 year old...anywhere, everywhere and all the time!  There isnt a store, eating establishment (both fast food and fancy) within 100 miles of here that hasnt been breastfed in!  BY HER!  And let me just go ahead and flip you off your chair backwards...she didnt wean until she was almost 4!!!  Sometimes we were discrete and sometimes I did all I could to keep her from wanting to nurse one and "hold other one Mommy."  Not when she was 4 of course---but as a toddler. 

I have a brother in law that had issues with it...but I couldnt care less.  I didnt do it at his house in front of him but he had issues with me doing it at all!  Honestly though, he just pretty much as issues period.

Yes breasts are sexual.  They are supposed to be.  But they are also for nourishing  babies.  Men, women, whom ever is offended by it is not JUST offended by breastfeeding but have some issue with breast/nakedness and differentiating between the sexual aspect and the nurturing aspect...I suspect it is a deep seeded problem.  But hey you are the doctor.

But for goodness sakes...LOOK AWAY and quit whining.  Turn your chair.  Be a big girl.  That breastfeeding mom paid for her dinner too! 

I agree with you....Dr. Phil.....what were you thinking? Letting that woman get away with what she said on your show today....saying it just isn't "appealing" or "attractive" to see breastfeeding boobies in public....please!!! I cannot beleve you took the ultra-diplomatic route on this...we watch you for your blunt honesty! Research has proven that breastfeeding is significantly better than formula for the first year...why are people out there villifying mothers for doing what is right? The breast provides milk....do you people think that is unnatural to breastfeed? I just don't get it. 

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