Replies to '12/25 Parent Trap'

Dr. Phil and all I am angry,

My husband and I are going through the exact same thing. There is a woman who claimed to have his child 16 years ago. He found out aboout it 8 years ago when he was arrested for a child support warrant. He was declaired the father by default. He has NEVER signed the birth certificate, He has NEVER been in the childs life at all. His license had been suspended and he has lost his job before due to failure to pay child support. We have had our taxes taken, we have spent money on lawyers and have requested appeal after appeal. All with no avail. He has always maintained that this boy was not his child. The mother  of the child finally agreed to a DNA test at an independent lab. Sure enough the child was not his. We then filed a new appeal based on the new evidence and again we were denided. All the mother has to do is go to Juvenile court and stop this order. She refuses. She is getting free money  from a man that has a real family with his real children  and she does not care. I am angry, mad , pissed off and frustrated. Her son hates her for lying to him all his life. She made him think that my husband was his father and that he didn't  want anything to do with him. The boy has called our house and begged to live with us and would ask to speak to our children etc. beforfe the DNA test. The system does not hold women accountable. All the state cares about is recooping funds for walfare from men that have nothing to do with it. We need a better system. I get upset everytime i think about what we have been through because a heartless  lier. All that boy wanted was a father and his mother took that away from him with her lies.