Quote From: lafaveSelina's mom should be completely ASHAMED of herself!!!!! She has no right to hold Enrique responsible for child support! She should have never even asked for it!!! This whole mess is no one's fault but her OWN!!! How dare you judge him when you are the one that was deceitful, dishonest, manipulative and immoral. Did she ever stop to put herself in his shoes? No, because she is a selfish, greety b#@*h!!! How would she feel if she was the one betrayed in SEVERAL, BIG ways!!!?? She wouldn't want a relationship with the child either b/c the pain that she would feel everytime she looked at that child would be awful!!!!!! And it would symbolize betrayal and emotional pain and loss! If that happened to me, first I would leave that person just for betraying me. Then you add a child to the mix and that is a triple sword. PUT YOURSELF IN HIS SHOES!!! And no, Enrique should not have told Selina the way he did. He should have left it up to the mom, so that she could see the pain that SHE has caused her family. And you can't fault him in needing time to decide if he could emotionally handle a relationship with Selina. The fact that even wants to at this point is pretty big of him, considering the hurt that comes along with it!!
I cannot even believe the lack of remorse on the mother's part!!!!!! What kind of person are you? Obviously one that has no heart and has seriously lost their moral compass!!!!! Not only should the mom be apologizing to Enrique (and dropping the child support request) but she should be apologizing to her children for tearing their family apart!!!! And you know for sure that she is making the situation worst by badmouthing Enrique and blaming him. You can't tell me that Selina would have felt that Enrique stepped out of the picture because of money if her mom had not been putting that idea in her head! Once again she is making Selina deal with adult problems and once again putting the blame on someone other than herself.
Her claim that Enrique should not have stopped his relationship with Enrique is a load of CRAP!!! She doesn't actually care about that at all which she makes obvious by asking for child support and continuing to bitch about it!! But she cannot hold the biological father responsible for child support either because that is another person she has decieved. It is not his responsibility to pay for her deceipt either. Though you would hope he would want a relationship with her, does he even know she exists???
Enrique, Selina, the biological father, and the other daughter are the victims here!! The mother has no right to claim any victimazation!!!! I feel INCREDIBLY bad for Selina!!! Because of what really in the end her mom is to blame for! And I feel bad for her sister and Enrique. There is not a question that Enrique loves her. But dealing with the pain may be more than most people can bare.
