Replies to '03/19 A Model's Dangerous Marriage'

I agree with you about Heather.  She is as much to blame as he is.  She constantly nags him and baits him into arguing more.  He tells her to leave, but she doesn't.  She just likes to fight.  She acted like everything was his fault and she just brought him on the Dr. Phil Show to show America what a rotten husband she has.  Well, true, I wouldn't be married to him, and he does have anger issues that he definitely needs to work on.  Heather never really owned up to her part in all of the conflict.  Kevin was much more honest even though he didn't out looking all that good.  But he took ownership for his part.  She never did.  A family member should take Penelope until both Heather and Kevin get serious counseling.  It's a shame, but I don't think they should stay married.  They don't love each other.

Doesn't matter who is better looking, the problem is fighting, abusive behavior and most of all, their child!

He is not good looking!!!  If you think for one moment that he is sincere as you phrase it, you have got to be kidding.  Don't let him fool you.  He acts one way on the show and you see how he acts at home, what's so sincere about that behavior?  I don't think for one moment that he will get any better.  He needs anger management classes to start!!!

 

Get out now and get help,whatever it takes.  You are fooling yourselves if you think your so-called marriage is going to get any better. They both need help, she needs to get help with her past and he needs psychological help, big time!  I'm sure he was abused as a child, but stop the insanity now.

 

She needs to move out of state along with her child and he is not to see his child until he can be trusted, which will probably take a long time. This is not going to happen overnight.

 

I was in a verbally abusive relationship, thankfully, I didn't marry him, but I can assure you that if I did, I probably would not be here today!!!

Open your eyes....you've been conned.

 

Conned by the con- man.

 

HE IS THE ABUSER.

 

HE IS NOT ONLY ABUSING HIS WIFE BUT HIS PRECIOUS CHILD.

 

This guy does NOT abuse out of anger...he is into POWER AND CONTROL cause he's a bully and a coward.   He abuses out of a sense of entitlement.   He uses the child to further abuse the mother.

 

He sat there and lied, denied, justified, minimized and blamed her.  "she made me do it."

 

You obviously have no idea about the dynamics of abuse and domestic violence in the family .

 

This guy has no intention of change, and he sure as hell doesn't want her to go to her uncle's place. Every abuser says leave, or...... I'll leave.....not because they will.....but to further the antics that go along with further abuse of the woman and family.   His telling Phil...he'll leave.....is just to get her and the child to stay under his reign and thumb of control.   Further hell.   Easily accessible to him and his choices.

 

It's not about seeing his child either, its about further abuse and control over a wife who now finally has an escape route, now that all of America and the world knows he has made sincere threats to kill both her and the child.

 

If she stays in their house and doesn't go to the uncle's, you can bet he's going to show up on the doorstep and con again and again.  She will live further  hell like no other.

 

You've been conned by this Abuser , Batterer.  

 

God help any woman who gets mixed up with this guy.

 

Father's who love their children do NOT threaten their children's safety and life.   Father's who love their children and are good parents do NOT abuse and terrorize their children or their children's mother.

 

 

 

 

 

 

How dare he treat that woman badly while her monster of a husband sits there all calm and cool. He is the phoney if I ever saw one. I was involved with someone like that. He verbally and emotionally abused me and he was so calm around other people that they couldn't believe he said and did the things he did to me. This guy reminds me of him so much and what I went through. I didn't endure the physical abuse that she has and he was the one that ended things but if he hadn't I could see myself in the same situation down the road.   I believe eventually he would have killed me also and it was always my fault somehow that he couldn't control his rage. That jerk actually blamed her for his abuse and Dr. Phil pecked away at her also. He should have stood up for her. She is not to blame for his abusive nature. That crap about she pushes his buttons and won't leave him alone is just that a load of crap. I thought Dr. Phil was smarter then that. I have lost a lot of respect for him after this show and how he went after her like he did.