Replies to '03/19 A Model's Dangerous Marriage'

 I believe  this man doe not love or care for you, i am sorry to break this to you but this man does not really care what damage he will do or  cause to you or your child. He knows exactly what he is doing and will not stop untill he succeeds. if he really loved you he would not put you through all this.

Do not subject your child to this kind of pain and suffering ,take the child and leave. You should protect youself and the child at whatever cost.

I think that their is alot more going on than is visible to the eye.People don't choose to stay in abusive relationship but because of  low self-esteem,fear,no support,no place to live etc. all goes through your mind when your in an abusive relationship.It's so easy for people to say get out,actually people are great with advise, but when you have no income,no place to live thats another story.People are not so willing to be there through the long road to recovery,they  have  lots of suggestions but unable to fullfill the help needed when the time comes.I lived it so I know what I'm saying, its truth for me.We don't all have a Dr. Phill to help us and usually everyone disappears because the abusiver drives them away,which leave you all alone,with no one.It all depends on your situation and everybody is different.I think the abusive person needs as much help as the abuse person which I find they don't always get because people are so judgemental.We forget that everyone in the situation is hurting,I don't agree with abusive behaviour,no excuse for it but I also witness how little help the person with the abusive behaviour gets,very little .

After watching the show I realized that both are abusive,they should be apart.Heather never takes responsible for her behaviour ,she continues to place all blame on her husband.If I had to lisiten to Heather all day ,she would drive me to anything!I don't agree with his behaviour,no excuse to abuse and having the child lisiteing to all this is absolutely terrible.I do believe she teachers her child to address her father as she does(I hate you dad).I'm glad that Dr. Phill said they should seperate,they really do need to be apart for each other sake and espically the childs.I would rather have a husband that loved me for me than just my looks,sadest statement he made towards Heather I ever heard and questing his child birth is really sad.